Have you seen a small plant ? Even in harsh sunlight it does not die, but if you pull its roots out it will be gone in a few minutes. Same is the fate of man. If you remain rooted you will face any problems in life without getting permanently hurt. What are your roots ? That is a point to ponder over and do some meditation on this issue.
We can also call it being in your center ! Only if you are at the center of the circle you can have a balanced vision of life, if you get pulled to anyone side of periphery , then you will loose that advantage. There are lot of forces, desires, beliefs etc that pull you away from the center. Even if you get pulled away, if you remain aware of it you will come back to center soon. Root cause if you examine will be mainly the attachment, if you rid yourself of attachment then these forces that pull you away from center will slowly fade off and you will enjoy the bliss of being in center.
Another example will make it very clear how this affects your life, you can see a wheel rotating, if you are placed at the periphery of the wheel you will be subjected to the extreme pulls of forces and may be you will be thrown off. If you stay exactly at center you will not be affected by the motion of the wheel.
So you can see it is very clear, do not complain, all suffering is your own making, you have a choice to be in center or to be away from it. If you made the choice to move away from center be ready to experience the turbulance, once you have experienced it, had enough of it, maintain your awareness and come back to your center and enjoy PEACE. For more CLICK HERE